Don’t ask for it.
Don’t push for it.
If you ask for it and if you push for it, you just may get it. And that’s not the it you’re truly after.
However, when it arrives in its own unique and non-prefabricated way, that reassurance will allow you to rest assured that you’re on something.
This will make a lot more sense the next time you’re about to ask for it and next time you’re blind-sided by it.
It should be a gift to you, the recipient, not a request.