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Have You Seen The Instruction Manual?

The short answer is no. You haven’t seen an instruction manual because there isn’t one.

Of course we don’t call it that though.

We call it college.

We call it the corporate ladder.

We call it schmoozing.

And now all of this isn’t making true on its promise to fulfill our dreams.

Here’s the catch: There isn’t a map for what you were sent here to do and there’s a reason something inside of you turns when you look out over an empty ocean.

Leave the shore. Sail your vessel. Return with your instruction manual.

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Clicking ‘Enable Awareness’

In default mode we miss a lot. So we must click ‘enable awareness’ to leave our default settings.

In default mode we react. When awareness is enabled we respond.

In default mode we breathe. When awareness is enabled we breath deeply.

W.H. Auden once wrote, Choice of attention – to pay attention to this and ignore that – is to the inner life what choice of action is to the outer. In both cases man is responsible for his choice and must accept the consequences. As Ortega y Gasset said: “Tell me to what you pay attention, and I will tell you who you are.”

A payment to attention is an eternal investment with endless ramifications.

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The Previews

Einstein once said that ‘your imagination is a preview of life’s coming attraction.’

The Book of Proverbs relays that ‘as a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.’

Dreams happen twice.

Once between your ears and once at your fingertips.

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What You Want(ed)…

…from your career is an experience that opens doors to avenues of other experiences. (Not money)

…from your life is an experience with purpose. (Not popularity)

…from your education is an experience with new data, insight, and enlightenment. (Not a 4.0)

Quick – go to the year 2033 in your mind. That’s just 7,300 sunrises away. Now look back at today.

You’re holding a card in your left hand that reads ‘I wish I had’. In your right hand you’re holding a card that reads ‘I’m glad I did’.

Which one are you holding up?

*Note: Experiments birth experiences.

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Digging For Gold and Finding Yourself

In search of the modern-day dream of its time, Mark Twain headed to Nevada from Missouri with his brother to mine for gold. The year was 1861 and for two weeks the two of them hopped from stage-coach to stage-coach across the Great Plains and Rocky Mountains. Imagine this.

Imagine no air conditioning. Imagine the smell and shake of the stage coaches for days. Imagine no cell phones. Imagine no iPad to occupy your time for 14 plus days of travel to dig, live, and find ‘the dream.’

Now imagine the anticipation. Imagine the stories Twain had heard about others finding gold. It’s safe to assume, the closer he got to the Nevada line, the more robust the anticipation grew. Imagine each stage-coach becoming more and more full with people chasing the same dream. You can almost hear the choir-like chants for gold cant’ you? And remember, there was no Las Vegas at this time to fall back on if he was unable to find gold. It would be another 50 years until the city of Las Vegas would be incorporated. Truly, this was the Wild, undiscovered, West.

Long story short, Twain made it Nevada and dug, and dug, and dug, and dug, and dug, and dug.

No gold.

One of my favorite quotes is from the book of Twain: “The two most important days of your life are the day you were born and the day you figure out why.”

If there’s TiVo in Heaven, I’m hopeful that one day I can see the see the scene when Twain slammed the shovel one last time into the side of a mountain and simultaneously felt and found that it was himself that he was really searching for…not the gold. That was the day and moment he figured out why.

I hope and pray that you’ve had a similar moment.

Happenstance eventually got him to San Francisco, by way of Nevada, and there begins the story of Mark Twain and the man we know as the father of American literature.

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