Monthly Archives: May 2016

Another > Other

The dualistic mind loves to divide, separate, label, and categorize everything and everyone. It’s a constant tug of war between good/bad, up/down, left/right, in/out, win/lose, & us/them. As long as ‘other’ is in dialogue, the dualistic mind is at peace. Or so it thinks.

However, the soul only knows things in their entirety, embraces beauty as a whole, and is most at home in states of harmony and communion. Somehow it knows there’s a oneness with fire and rain, winter and spring, noise and music, and even with the separation of individual solitudes.

What if we all weren’t something ‘other’ to be labeled, but we each were ‘another’ form of love?

What if that were true?

What if that was a question you asked often?

Surely, we would enjoy more than we would critique, we would engage more than we would isolate, and we would rest in our individual and unique beings more than we would boast about our momentary doings.

So today…

As you jog by the stranger…see them as another form.

As you hold the door for one with their hands full…enjoy them as another form.

As you are waited on…learn from another form.

As you are cut off in traffic…forgive another form.

As you are misunderstood….love another, misunderstood, form.

And as you do what you do from the depth of who you are be another form of the great Love that is the engine to our universe.

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Inner and Outer Worlds

A life explored from the inside out is a life that gives the world gifts from the heart space, offers and reveals its individual art for the greater good, and shines simply for the purpose of contribution.

On the other hand, a life navigated from the outside in that is constantly monitoring ‘enemy’ radar tends to take (typically offense or advantage) more often than it gives simple beauty and is constantly refining its consumption habits and preferences.

Starting with our own interior world changes everything. And perhaps the best news is that we get to partake in the magic in-lieu of being mis-taken.

Einstein said it best, “The greatness of an artist lies in the building of an inner world, and in the ability to reconcile this inner world with the outer.”

The outer world? Yes, it can get a little crazy with 7.4 billion of us. But you? Your center is love and good. What if we all started there?

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Podcast 23: A Conversation with Parker J. Palmer

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Parker J. Palmer, founder and Senior Partner of the Center for Courage & Renewal, is a world-renowned writer, speaker and activist who focuses on issues in education, community, leadership, spirituality and social change. He has reached millions worldwide through his nine books, including Let Your Life Speak, The Courage to Teach, A Hidden Wholeness, and Healing the Heart of Democracy.

Palmer joins us in Episode 23 with lovely conversation and journey into the ‘mobius strip’, the beauty found in paradox, community, solitude, and living an undivided life.

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The Mobius Strip

His work has richly illuminated my life and I’m certain this conversation will do the same for you.

You can find more information on Parker and the Center for Courage and Renewal by clicking here and all of his books can be found at Amazon by clicking here.

This episode is available for download and streaming in iTunes as well as AshtonGustafson.com.

Lastly, please remember to share this with those you love and those you lead.

 

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Search Bars

The search bar on your computer will most likely offer you billions of answers as you search.

You want answers? Good news is they’ve never been easier to find.

Then there’s the search bar in your soul. Unlike the billion answers offered at your fingertips above, this space will most likely yield a handful of beautiful questions from your questions as you explore its space.

We get our answers, but all too often we forget to explore the questions that are the sap oozing through our beings. Nevertheless, I’m quite certain, they don’t forget us.

If you’re bored, I would bet that you’ve got all your answers.

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