Category Archives: Focus

Renting vs. Owning

There’s an enormous difference in the engagement, experience, and fulfillment that occurs when we rent something and when we own something.

Think about the cars you’ve rented in the past. Style, design, and color isn’t near as important as price. And while we’re on the topic, you probably chose ‘cheap’.

Now think about the car you own. Or better yet, think about the car you you’ve wanted and dreamed of owning. I would bet that you know the color, the specs, the feel…and somehow, you even have and idea of the smell.

The same can surely be said for our homes and other rentable products and services but what about our lives?

Here’s the catch of the day: Ownership leads to reverence. You interact with everything differently when your time and energy was involved in making it a reality. And isn’t reverence what we’re all looking to get out our moments, minutes, hours, days, and lives? Don’t we want to respect, interact with, admire, and find awe in the electric flow that happens when we do our part in creating something worth remarking on and worth being shared?

We want to know that our presence was a part of something new, fresh, mysterious, and original. We want to taste and see the beautiful. We want to be still and know the Divine. We want to stop and smell the roses. But how many of us OWN these longings and make the investment for them to become realities? The research shows very few.

Own your life and take ownership of what leads to the wonder and beauty of your days. Don’t rent it to cable tv, the media, and pessimism. They’re terrible landlords and their only concern is you paying them with holiest of all currencies…your time.

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We can do better.

We can become more present.

We can practice more patience.

We can listen without an agenda.

We can love deeper and wider.

We can put more creativity into the world.

We can be transformed.

We can accept responsibility.

We can do this. 

We can do better.

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When you choose karaoke…

…you’ve chosen to not be original.

This choice will numb the moment, but will also bring an aching regret down the road.

Ideas that move us to joy and tears and lives that lead us to change for the better are always original.

So for you, and for us, please bring us something new, sing us something fresh, and give us what only you can give.

There’s a first for everything and when it comes to you there will never be a second.

 

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LTMP Episode 17: The ONE Thing with Jay Papasan

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I am so thrilled to have Jay Papasan in Episode 17 @ Let The Music Play. Jay is a bestselling author, Vice President of Rellek Publishing, co-owner of Keller Capital, and co-owner, alongside his wife Wendy, of Papasan Properties Group with Keller Williams Realty in Austin, Texas. The books he’s helped craft have collectively sold over 8 million copies. His most recent work with Gary Keller on The ONE Thing has sold over half a million copies worldwide and garnered more than 350 appearances on national bestseller lists, including #1 on The Wall Street Journal’s hardcover business list.

No matter your role or current stage of life, this is a conversation that will help you get more purpose, more meaning, and more fulfillment out of your days.

You can follow Jay on Twitter or at JayPapasan.org.

You can also find more episodes of Let The Music Play by clicking here.

Enjoy and remember to share this with those you love and lead!

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Movement or Stillness?

It’s both.

There’s probably no other art – yes, art – more significant today to your awareness and liveliness than the art of being still. Silence screams and so we tend to avoid it. I encourage you to lean in.

And there’s nothing harder to overcome than the paralysis of overthinking and over-worrying that keeps us from moving towards our truest selves and highest calling.

Here’s the catch…

Before you move, be still. And when you’re still, dwell on what moves you.

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